Aye girl what it do
it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
Agreeing to make couple OCs with someone but neither of you are allowed to show your OCs to each other until they are ready and now those two are going to get together and they must work it out no matter what
let’s do it
Cleaning up the hard drive today and found this series of photos… our LEGENDARY TOXIC TOY JARS.
We threw a bunch of jelly toys (vibrators, dildos and masturbation sleeves) into some glass jars, sealed them, and then just left them alone. This is what happened.
See all that clear fluid at the bottom? That’s the product of the ongoing chemical reaction that happens when PVC and phthalates (or other toxic plasticizing chemicals) hang out inside a jelly toy.
These toys off-gassed and slimed themselves and their jar-mates, swapping plasticizers and deteriorating even more.
Jelly toys are not body safe. Please feel free to share these photos far and wide!
ps These jars got so scary, we had to throw them away a couple of years ago. RIP, jelly toys. RIP.
Don’t buy jelly toys people!
"What the fuck is that?"
A reminder why you shouldn’t shove nasty jelly toys in your body! Look at that!
THE SEX TOY INDUSTRY NEEDS TO BE REGULATED OH MY GOD
Always buy phthalate-free, folks!
V. Important people
a lot of sex toy materials are hazardous or cannot be sterilized, but jelly toys are the worst offenders by far. if you want 100% completely safe toys that are durable and can be completely sterilized, buy silicone (NOT sili-gel, or “TPH silicone,” actual, real 100% silicone — DO NOT BUY ANYTHING MADE BY CALIFORINA EXOTICS, they habitually lie about what their toys are made of and their “silicone” toys often fail the burn test!*), glass, or metal.
* to determine if a silicone toy is made with real silicone or not, hold it to an open flame. since silicone has a very high boiling point, a toy made with real silicone will not be damaged in any way by heat (save for maybe a bit of soot that can be washed off), while a fake silicone toy will melt and obviously cannot be sterilized. a real silicone toy you can boil or put in a dishwasher for cleaning, while a crappy plastic toy will be destroyed if you do that.
tl;dr if you care about being able to sterilize your toys and/or share them with a partner, buy silicone, or glass/metal if your various orifices can handle it. it’s just safer!
Glass and certain metal toys are also pretty safe. The glass is made of pyrex and is shatter-resistant. Plus you can boil most glass and metal toys to sterilize.